What is your comfort zone?
Do you prefer one or another?
Meet N Greets
A low pressure atmosphere to meet up with Lifestyle couples and singles, typically held at a bar. Each one is a little different in terms of style, theme, music, dance, etc., however they are a great starting pace if you are new to the Lifestyle. You can dress as sexy or casually as you want and there is typically no nudity. MnG's are typically free to attend.
Events - Hotel Takeovers, Resort Takeovers, Camping, etc.
Events can be a little more intense and intimidating as there is a lot more opportunities to see nudity and/or playing. This does not mean however that you have to join in on any of it. Events can be an overnight to a full weekend and have various theme's or just an overall theme. Most have a designated "playroom" with different sex furniture to play on. Each piece of furniture is in its own tent area with a see thru screen. If the screen is closed, you may watch, if it is open, you can enter and ASK PERMISSION to join or just watch. Generally there are mixers available and a light snack. Bring your own booze.
House parties tend to be more exclusive, meaning you need an invite to attend. There are open house parties posted on the Lifestyle sites as well. As the name suggests, these are held at someone's house so discretion when arriving is always appreciated. Each house party is a little different, but most have snacks and mixers available, once again bring your own booze. Some house parties will have designated play area's.
Each one has its pro's and con's. We enjoy aspects of all of them.