Ghosting/No Replies

Ghosting - The art of some couples being able to have a great conversation with someone and as soon as the other couple asks for a date, they disappear.  Ok, yes there are other scenario's but you get the idea.  As frustrating as this is, it is a common practice of many couples.  Is it the new norm of society or is this exclusive to the lifestyle?  Within the lifestyle there may be many reasons, the couple is really only a guy, the husband is acting without the wife's knowledge or approval, they just get scared of the prospect of meeting someone, or maybe we just turned them off for some reason.   How can you avoid it?  We, plain and simple, don't beat around the bush, we ask "When would like to do dinner or drinks?" within the first few minutes or chatting.  If they ignore the question we will let them know that we are not interested in just chatting and that we wish them well in the lifestyle.  If they say they will have to check with their spouse we offer to add the spouse in on the chat or contact us when you have an answer. 

No Replies - You find a great couple on a lifestyle website, you send them a message, and then wait, and wait, and never get a reply.  Frustrating as this is, there are many reasons for it.  What was the content of your message?  We have found the more thought and content we put into a message, the higher rate of replies we get.  When was the last time the couple was online?  There are couples that only log on weekly or even monthly.  There are a plethora of reasons a couple may not respond to you, however the most common is that they are simply not interested, which begs the question, why not just reply, "Sorry, we are not interested?"  Who the fuck knows?  Afraid your gonna hurt the other couples feelings?  To busy?  Any reason, as far as we are concerned is "Bullshit". 

Ok so our rant is over...  LOL

Last weekend, we were fortunate enough to be invited to a house party for Halloween.  Holy shit, did we have fun!  Everyone was dressed up in awesome costumes and the alcohol flowed freely.  If you ever get a chance to attend a house party we would highly suggest it.